Happy Post-Merry Christmas! We hope everyone had a great Christmas celebrating the birth of our King with your families. We are excited to announce the completion of another important step in our adoption.

On Christmas Eve we received an awesome present in the form of an e-mail letting us know that the Embassy had completed our PAIR investigation and we would be receiving our PAIR letter in 7-10 days! This is the last major hurdle before we get a court date and are able to travel to see our Little Lion Man. We are hoping to travel in January for our first trip. Please pray for our family as we near this trip, as there are still many things that must happen before we travel. Pray for our planning and preparation, protection and to calm anxiety within the girls as we are away, and for LLM's heart as I know the next few months will be challenging for him.

We are completely amazed at God's plan for our family. When we submit to His plan, and abandon our own plan, it is amazing to see just how many things happen beyond our control and belief. As we struggle daily to live our lives according to His Word, it is reassuring to know that we have a loving and saving King, full of grace and mercy.

We cannot express our appreciation enough for the love and support shown by our family and friends and cannot wait to LLM of all the people who helped bring him home!

Also, before I forget our adoption t-shirts are in and ready for delivery or pick-up. Please get with us and we will ensure you get your shirt. If you have not paid, they are $15 for all sizes up to extra-large and $16 for double extra-large and up. Again, we are so thankful for those who have participation in this fundraiser.

We are beginning to take pre-orders for our adoption shirts. This is a fundraiser specifically to help pay for travel expenses to Ethiopia x2. The shirts are $15.00 each, and $16.00 for sizes 2XL and above. Available in all standard youth and adult sizes. We will accept payment up front or you can pay when they arrive. We will be accepting orders over the next few weeks, so please see Laurie or myself if you are interested. Thank you for all the support you have shown to us throughout this entire process! To God be the Glory.

Please remember we are selling puzzle pieces.  This helps us raise money for our adoption!  We have less than 200 remaining.  The information is below.

The cost of each puzzle piece is $10. We will write the name of each person on the back of each puzzle piece and frame both sides in glass when complete. We plan to hang this in his room so he can see all of the people who helped bring him home!

Anyone can help support this. Buy one for yourself, one for each member of your family, one for a friend, one as a memory for someone, or if your broke go halfies with someone else who is broke!

There are a few ways to participate. Cash and check are accepted. Make checks out to Erick and Laurie Lawson.

1. See Laurie or Erick and sign up in person.
2. Mail us your gift. Cash or check. (Message us for our address if you need it.)
3. Donate to our church (see the fundraising tab on our blog), but make sure to label the gift as part of the Lawson puzzle fundraiser so we can get your name on the puzzle piece.

We also have extra participation sheets if anyone would like to sell some of our puzzle pieces for us! All you have to do is have them sign the sheet and collect the money. Please let us know if you would like a sheet.

Thank you so much!

We have such an awesome God!  There are no other words to explain our emotions today.  Before, I tell of our news, let me preface with a short story.

We have been primed through the start of this adoption to be patient, understanding that this process takes a long time to come to fruition.  Through prayer and guidance we had positioned ourselves with a mind frame of not getting overly excited.  We did not want to be let down by the months and months, maybe years, of waiting.  To further dull our excitement we were told Ethiopia would be shutting down for a couple of months and not to expect much movement.  We were okay with that and really content with our position in the adoption process.  Well today that all changed!

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WE HAVE BEEN MATCHED WITH OUR SON!  

Our agency called us this morning and had the most handsome boy for us to consider.  God's plan, not ours...  We thought we would have much more time to prepare, but that is not the case.  We have unofficially decided to proceed in bringing home our Little Lion Man.  We will be reviewing his paperwork, again, and sending in the official acceptance forms.

With this unexpected blessing in our lives, we are scrambling to secure the financial portion required for this stage.  We still have a lot of puzzle pieces for sale, and will need to collect any outstanding commitments as soon as possible.  Please be understanding that we will be expediting this process due to the GREAT news today!

Let me say again he is a handsome fellow and he melts our hearts!  We cannot posted his picture on social media or give out descriptive information about him on here, but we will be happy to share in person.  PLEASE do not post anything descriptive about him or his picture on social media or similar sites without our permission.  This could jeopardize the adoption.

We have been extremely blessed and do not deserve it, but can only say thank you to God, our family, our church, and our friends!

Happy Spring!

It has been a few weeks since our last post, but we have GREAT news to share.  Our dossier is in the process of arriving in Ethiopia and we have received our wait number.  That means we are OFFICIALLY on the waiting list.  The best news is our number was much lower than we anticipated.  We are praying this cuts down on our wait time for a referral.  Come on #1!

We have also received news out of Ethiopia concerning the recent slow down in referrals and placements. Below is an excerpt from the information we received.

"Over the weekend two important meetings were held by Federal MOWCYA in Ethiopia, one with the Orphanages, and the other with all Adoption Agencies.   We know that many of you have been praying for these meetings, and those involved in the adoption process in Ethiopia. The meeting Dove’s attorney attended was called by the Minister of Federal MOWCYA, for all adoption agencies and federal MOWCYA workers. The agenda of this meeting was to review and discuss the results of an investigation, which was ordered by the Minister, of about 142 orphanages across Ethiopia. MOWCYA experts investigated orphanages current status, needs, and dependency upon adoption agency support and international adoption. The reports from this investigation were presented to the Minister and the Adoption Agencies on Sunday, during a full day meeting. The results provided evidence and support that the need for international adoption in Ethiopia is prominent.

The Minister assured all at this meeting that her position is in favor of international adoption as a child's last means of support, and that adoption from Ethiopia has not, and will not stop.  The Minister also indicated that the reason for this slow-down in referrals is to improve the integrity of the adoption process. The Minister is meeting in the Southern Region of Ethiopia next Friday, to see that Southern Ethiopia opens up again for adoption.  These are all great indications of furthered support to the orphaned children in Ethiopia."

So as you can see we can expect a pick-up in referrals.  We are already seeing this in action as (3) referrals were made just last week through our agency.  That is more in one week then in the last few months.  We know the the Lord has a plan for us and we are excited to follow His path us in His own time.
Please continue to pray for our family during this process.  We are still continuing to fund raise, planning for a few payments at the time of referral.  Our puzzle piece fundraiser has stalled out with about 190 pieces remaining.  This is a large fundraiser for us, so it is critical for us to get all the pieces sold.  The pieces are $10 per piece.  If you would like to purchase a pieces, or two, or ten please see myself or Laurie.  The goal is to have a name on the back of each puzzle piece so our Little Lion Man can see all the people the helped bring him home to his family. 

In closing, I just would like to share some pictures from Easter this past weekend.  We were honored to help support another family adopting from Ethiopia by purchasing their adoption shirts as part of the Forget the Frock fundraiser.

 

Looking at the calendar, spring is approaching, softball and baseball season is beginning and we have officially began waiting for our son to come home!  Our dossier has begun it's journey to Ethiopia with a short layover in Oregon.

I was able to take this quick picture as the UPS guy took it away.  He was kind of puzzled when I told him to be extra careful and to make sure it gets there, because that is my son in that box.  Once I explained he understood!

Don't get your hopes up too much, this is only the top of the 1st inning, there is a lot of game left. (Since it is softball season).  Please keep praying us and this journey.  We anticipate the wait, but pray it does not go into extra innings.

Just a reminder we are still selling puzzle pieces to help raise money for our adoption.  They are $10 a piece and we still have about 200 pieces left.  Please let us know if you would like to purchase 1, 2, 10, or all of them!

Playing the waiting game...

Hello all!  Not much has been happening with the adoption.  We are waiting on US immigration to approve our paperwork.  Once they approve our paperwork we can send our dossier to Ethiopia and begin the wait to be matched with our son.  So far we have been very patient, but it gets harder each day.  Saturday night we ate at a local Ethiopian restaurant with family.  It was an awesome fellowship, however it was bittersweet for our family.  As we waited for our table we saw the cutest little Ethiopian boy with his new family.  Oh how we prayed to bring our son home.  It was a bit awkward for the other family as we all stared, maybe we should get t-shirts that say , "It is ok we're adopting too!"

Many people have asked how the can continue to support our family and adoption journey.  First, PRAY, this never hurts and we need all of them.  Second, we still have puzzle pieces to sell for our adoption.  Look at our previous post for the information. Third, encourage us, we sometimes get bogged down in the paperwork and red tape and lose focus on the final outcome, our SON!  Please take a minute to read the article below.  It provides some good information on how to support adopting families.  As always, we are very thankful for the many wonderful people who have blessed our family with support.

http://www.bpnews.net/BPFirstPerson.asp?id=41956

FIRST-PERSON: Encouragement for adoptive parents
Lynette Ezell

ALPHARETTA, Ga. (BP) -- I remember the first time I realized the love and grace of Psalm 68:6: "God sets the lonely in families." God is a builder, the master of arranging and connecting the pieces of our lives together. And this truth is clearly fleshed out in adoption. 

Growing up in a small town did not lend me the model of adoption or multiracial families. In other words, I didn't bring the "know-how" to the table. God alone built our family, just as He's building yours. And if God is the foundation layer and contractor, which I know He is, then He will see our families to completion. 

We believe the Lord sees these little ones in this vast, fallen world and knows their every need. He created each of them in His image, for His glory and has a purpose for each of their lives. 

Although many seasons of adoption can be difficult and challenging, the mission is undeniable for those of us called to broaden our tents and surrender our families for the sake of the Gospel. 

The adoption journey can prove to be long and treacherous. I understand that the road ahead can usher in discouraging days with "What have we gotten into?" moments. When I find myself along that path, I step back and mentally simplify. 

OK, so I have a child who may never grasp math or the periodic table of elements. But what I have been entrusted with is a live wire who loves to laugh and sing, who came to our family starving because of parasites, who had a mouth full of rotten teeth and fears so deep that I laid on the floor beside her bed while she slept and begged the Lord to erase the painful memories. 

It all became simple the morning she sat beside me and, with passionate tears in her chocolate eyes, asked Jesus to be her forever Savior and Lord. Isn't that the goal, that we take all our children to heaven with us? God is building families for eternity, and He's equipping the weakest of us to do it. 

Persistence and patience are tools every adoptive family needs as we navigate the often-frustrating path of adoption. In essence, we've been called to break the mold of the typical family and confidently trust that the Lord sets children in our lives as He so desires. 

As we raise our children who we did not birth or maybe even did not meet until they were older, we are a picture to the world of a loving, all-powerful Savior who truly sets the lonely in families. He alone is the master builder of our homes. 

Let's keep moving forward together.
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Lynette Ezell is volunteer director of the SBC Adoption Fund. She and her husband Kevin have six children, three of whom are adopted, each from a different nation. For more information on the adoption fund, visit namb.net/adoption. Get Baptist Press headlines and breaking news on Twitter (@BaptistPress), Facebook (Facebook.com/BaptistPress) and in your email (baptistpress.com/SubscribeBP.asp).

Humbled by sacrificial giving

The holidays are over and things are starting to settle down.  We had a busy couple of weeks since our last post.  We had a significant amount of money due right at Christmas, which we had planned for, but it was still  overwhelming.  As we stressed about the financial situation, God had already been at work providing for us, and directing this situation.

This Christmas was truly a blessing, as multiple members of our family sacrificed gifts and time to provide for our adoption.  We were completely blown away by each person who felt the desire to sacrificially give to our adoption.  We sometimes overlook the bond of a family, for which there is no excuse.  We have been blessed with awesome families who are pouring out their love and support for our family.

Following Christmas, we were able to send out our packet to immigration!  They should have it for 45-90 days, then we get to send our dossier to Ethiopia!

We also had an opportunity to get a present for our Little Lion Man for Christmas. We built him a fireman teddy bear.  It may go with us to Ethiopia! It was just our little way of having him here for Christmas!  The girls had a blast.

We hope everyone had a blessed Christmas and New Year.  Also, please remember we are selling puzzle pieces.  This helps us raise money for our adoption!  The information is below.

The cost of each puzzle piece is $10. We will write the name of each person on the back of each puzzle piece and frame both sides in glass when complete. We plan to hang this in his room so he can see all of the people who helped bring him home!

Anyone can help support this. Buy one for yourself, one for each member of your family, one for a friend, one as a memory for someone, or if your broke go halfies with someone else who is broke!

There are a few ways to participate. Cash and check are accepted. Make checks out to Erick and Laurie Lawson.

1. See Laurie or Erick and sign up in person.
2. Mail us your gift. Cash or check. (Message us for our address if you need it.)
3. Donate to our church (see the fundraising tab on our blog), but make sure to label the gift as part of the Lawson puzzle fundraiser so we can get your name on the puzzle piece.

We also have extra participation sheets if anyone would like to sell some of our puzzle pieces for us! All you have to do is have them sign the sheet and collect the money. Please let us know if you would like a sheet.

One step closer - First Fundraiser!

First and foremost, Merry Christmas to everyone from the Lawsons!

We have had a very blessed week so far!  Our home study paperwork came in the mail, which means we were able to submit our paperwork to US Immigration!  Please pray for expedience in this process, as our next step will be to submit our dossier to Ethiopia.  We are very excited, but are also reserved in the fact that our Little Lion Man may be spending Christmas alone, without his family.  We pray that we are soon connected and one less child is without a family.

We also celebrate the birth of our oldest tomorrow!  She will be 15, and is quickly maturing into a beautiful young lady.  We will soon be sending her off to college, which is a hard pill to swallow.  We have been blessed with her and look forward to many more years to come.

We would also like to announce our first adoption fundraiser.  We are quickly moving through the process and are trying to stay ahead of the curve when it comes to payments.  To help cover some of our upcoming cost we will be selling puzzle pieces and hope to have enough support to finish this 500 piece puzzle.

The cost of each puzzle piece is $10.  We will write the name of each person on the back of each puzzle piece and frame both sides in glass when complete.  We plan to hang this in his room so he can see all of the people who helped bring him home!

Anyone can help support this.  Buy one for yourself, one for each member of your family, one for a friend, one as a memory for someone, or if your broke go halfies with someone else who is broke!

There are a few ways to participate. Cash and check are accepted.  Make checks out to Erick and Laurie Lawson.

1. See Laurie or Erick and sign up in person.
2. Mail us your gift.  Cash or check. (Message us for our address if you need it.)
3. Donate to our church (see the fundraising tab on our blog), but make sure to label the gift as part of the Lawson puzzle fundraiser so we can get your name on the puzzle piece.

We also have extra participation sheets if anyone would like to sell some of our puzzle pieces for us!  All you have to do is have them sign the sheet and collect the money.  Please let us know if you would like a sheet.

We are so appreciative of those who have already given and praise God that he continues to provide.

If you have any questions please send us a message! 

Almost ready to send our paperwork to immigration!

Good Morning!

It has been a couple of weeks since our last post, but we have been very busy finishing up the last part of our home study, in preparation to send off our paperwork to immigration. Lord willing our paperwork will be sent out by the end of December and we should have our approval back in 90 days!

Our family has been preparing our hearts and mind for our upcoming addition, and we have been blessed in sharing our story. There is not a day that goes by, that we do not share our experience with someone. Most of these encounters are positive, but we still have our moments when people just do not understand why we are adopting, much less adopting from another country. Many individuals have expressed their concerns and asked how we are going to handle various situations, struggles, etc. Our simple answer is, we are going to have faith in our Lord! When we began this journey we had no clue what we were doing, or how we were even going to do it, but God has provided us those answers in ways we could never imagine. So we will continue to have faith and understand He is God through all and in all. 


Thanksgiving was a bittersweet day. Through all of the celebration of thanks, the wonderful time spent with family, we would be remiss if we did not take the opportunity to wonder if our little lion man was even being fed or tended to as we gorged ourselves in food and shopping without hesitation.

It is challenging not to wonder about these types of things, because they are real truths and issues, that we simply cannot turn our back on. We know that his day is coming and very soon we will be able to say we "Gotcha!"

We are beginning to feel the emotional roller coaster that comes along with the adoption process, but it is so worth it... Words cannot describe the feelings that each person in our house is experiencing.  Each of us has been doing whatever it takes to ensure our little lion man is brought home.  We are called to be selfish in our giving, and we have been blessed that our children also understand this calling.  Maddy celebrated her 11th birthday at the beginning of Thanksgiving week.  We will not even begin to allude to the thoughts of how old we are getting and how quickly our girls are growing up!  Anyway, Maddy was blessed with multiple presents and some spending cash for her birthday.  Most children would run away with their score, however Maddy
chose a different path and made us proud to be her parents.  As she counted her $11, she gave Laurie a crisp $5 bill.  When Laurie asked what it was for, Maddy simply responded, "put it towards our adoption."  Wow!  What a moment that every parent should experience.  The Lord has definitely infiltrated her heart.

As we begin December, we look forward to celebrating the birth of our other two girls, Ally and Gabby, but most importantly the birth of our Christ!  We have been blessed by both! Please continue to be in prayer for our family, but also be in prayer for other families who are going through this process, families who will be celebrating Christmas for the first time with their child, children who are still waiting on a family, children who have a family, but face difficult situations, and everyone is is experiencing hardships this holiday season. Pray that they recognize Christ as their Lord and Savior and place their burdens at His feet.

What a blessing this weekend has been!

Thank goodness it is Monday!  Said no one ever!  This past weekend was such a blessing for our family. On Friday, we were really busy!  First, it was Laurie's birthday and words cannot express how much she means to me and our family.  We are blessed to have an awesome Wife and Mother!

After a morning doctor visit for me, we completed our scheduled interviews with our social worker Lyndsey. Again, Lyndsey is awesome at what she does and made the interviews very comfortable.  We are ahead of the process and hope to have our paperwork sent off by January!

One thing that we realized from the interviews (other than we are introverts), is how much our adoption is allowing us to spread the gospel.  When asked what my feelings were about the adoption process, I sat back and thought about two things. Oh my!  We are consumed with paperwork and training, I almost forgot what the end reward was, A SON, however even with being buried within the process there have been opportunities for us to tell our story.  When we tell our story we cannot even begin to tell it without first mentioning, why we are called to adopt.

Pure and genuine religion in the sight of God the Father means caring for orphans and widows in their distress and refusing to let the world corrupt you. James 1:27 (NLT)

This gives us an opportunity to spread the gospel to individuals who we may have never reached out to on our own.  We were orphans who were rescued from sin, through the crucifixion, burial, and resurrection three days later of our Lord Jesus Christ.  As a living testament to our belief, we are to live as James 1:27 instructs us, go and do, do not sit and listen.  We are not rescuers of orphans, but are the rescued!  The video below is well worth the couple of minutes.

Francis Chan For Orphan Sunday from Christian Alliance for Orphans on Vimeo.

So beyond bringing home our son and brother, we have been given a platform to proclaim God's glory.

That was pretty much our Friday!
Saturday began early with a trip to Lexington to watch Kentucky football! GO BIG BLUE!  While the outcome was not what we had hoped, the time Laurie and I had together was better than any win. We even had a couple of surprise guest, Jason (BIL) and Carrie (SIL), who secretly made their way to Lexington as well. After a early dinner, we enjoyed a quiet night with no kids! (Even though we missed them tremendously)

A side note to Saturday, my Aunt and Uncle gave us there old living room set, which is awesome!  We are very grateful for their kindness.

As we awoke on Sunday, our nerves began to set in.  We had been asked to speak during our Orphan Sunday Service about our journey.  At first we were reluctant to speak.  With all of the other families who have adopted within our church, surely they were more qualified to speak about the topic, however after much prayer we decided it was important to tell our story.  Without those other families in our church, getting up, and telling their adoption stories over the past two years, we may have never pursued adoption.  The level of orphan care in our church is amazing!  So many families doing as they are called to do!  On stage we had families from (5) nations, including the United States who have or are in the process of adopting!

To our surprise, we were overwhelmed with family members coming to see us talk.  It was awesome having my Nana, Mom, Brothers, Sister, and Niece visiting to hear our story.  Combined with Laurie's Mom, Sister, her Husband and their kids, we truly could feel the support of our family.

As the service began, my emotions started to get the best of me, I NEVER CRY, but the Lord was pulling on my heart.  Our turn came, and with God's power and grace, we were able to tell our story.

While each families story is different, we wanted to express that when God gives you a command, FOLLOW IT!  Do not give in to easy excuses such as, lack of time, lack of love, lack of money, but have faith in the power of our Lord.

“Faith makes all things possible… love makes all things easy.” ~ D.L. Moody

Adoption or foster care may not be for everyone, but there our things you can do to help orphans around the world.

Ten Ways Every Christian Can Care for the Orphan

1. Plead with the Father for Them

2. Speak Up For Them

3. Give Them What They Need

4. Support Those Who Support Them

5. Provide Them a Safe Place

6. Go Visit Them

7. Give Sacrificially to Them

8. Cheer Them On

9. Give Them a Forever Family

10. Mobilize Your Church for Them

So as you can see, our family was truly blessed this weekend!

Hello everyone! It's been a while since I have posted.  I am so thankful that Erick is so much better at this than I am.  Well, we finished our first 10 hrs of online training.  Wow it had so much information to process but was so worth it.  As I was doing the readings I was all over the place with emotions.  I am so excited to be in this process and can't wait to bring our little man home, but oh my goodness I am scared to death as well.  I know we are far from actually bringing him home, but it still scares me.  I knew it would change our lives here, but it is going to completely turn his world upside down.  These orphans are in orphanages where they most likely don't have one on one time with anyone.  It's usually 10-15 kids to 1 caregiver.  So they go from that to a family of 5 who will bow to his beckon need.  Could you imagine how that would feel?  The only way I can picture it is me in a room with wall to wall people and not knowing a single one of them, AND I'm expected act like I know them and understand them.  Just thinking about that puts me in panic mode.  My prayers everyday and night are that not only will God prepare us for this wonderful journey, but to be with our son that he has already chosen for us.  I pray that He prepares our son for the life with his forever family and that He prepares him for the endless amount of love that is waiting for him. 

Our church is doing Adoption Sunday this coming Sunday.  Erick and I have been asked to speak about our process.  I do ask for prayers for this because I am not a public speaker but I do feel this is something that needs awareness brought to.  There are 153 million orphans in the world, 5 million of those are in Ethiopia.  That breaks my heart.  During 2008-2009 adoption was at it's peak and every year since then the numbers keep getting lower and lower.  It is our job as Christian, as parents to bring awareness to this.  God has called all of us to care for the orphans, whether that is through adoptions or financials, or however God is leading you.

I continue everyday to be amazed that God has chosen our family to adopt.  I am also very thankful for this opportunity.  Our God has been so generous and merciful by adopting us.  I pray that He continues to bless us through this process so we can show the same kind of love, kindness, and mercy to our little lion man that God has shown us.

Psalm 68:5-6

Orphan Sunday Week

Good Morning,

Not much has been going on with our adoption process, unless you count the hours of on-line training that is waiting for us to finish, pending medical exams and clearances, and the second part of our home study coming up in a week!  We have loved every minute of the process, but we know the worst is yet to come, at least that is what our training is telling us!

We have been asked to speak next Sunday, November 10, 2013 about our adoption journey.  Our church is celebrating Orphan Sunday a week later than most.  This is an intimidating request, since so many wonderful families in our church have adopted or are in the process of adopting.  Surely, they are more

qualified to speak on the subject then we are, we still haven't cracked the shell of our process.  We pray the Lord gives us a voice to speak passionately and tell our family's adoption story.

It seems like it was just yesterday that we were listening to other families tell their wonderful story, not necessarily knowing what God had in store for our family.  It is funny how adoption seems so normal once you begin the process, but how outlandish the thought was before considering it.
You would see the commercials on television, you knew the problems of the world, but none of it had a face. In the book, Radical by David Platt,  he explains how we can be so numb to the facts, "We learned that orphans are easier to ignore before you know their names.  They are easier to ignore before you see their faces.  It is easier to pretend they're not real before you hold them in your arms. But once you do, everything changes..."

We challenge you to have a part in orphan care, and understand who orphans are and realize they need love.


I AM LOVED from Christian Alliance for Orphans on Vimeo.

Speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves; ensure justice for those being crushed. Yes, speak up for the poor and helpless, and see that they get justice. 
-Proverbs 31:8-9

Learning and Fellowship

Last night we had the opportunity to meet with other Lifeline families from Kentucky who are adopting from various countries.  This was an educational event, designed  to help families prepare the siblings for the adoption.  We received so much valuable information, that we had been seeking, but relished the opportunity to hear stories from other families about their journey.  Everyone was in various stages, and provided insight on things to come.

More importantly between the fellowship and the learning event, Laurie and I concluded we are on the right path.  Our agency is one of the best, and last night proved just how much they care for their families.  While

we have never doubted our choice, we have questioned why we were blessed to have adoption placed on our heart.  We have been blessed beyond measure with three healthy, beautiful children, and could never ask for more, yet the Lord has said He is not finished with our family.  It is so wonderful to know, that through all of the hardships, God continues to bless our family.  As we learned last night, the way we handle the stress of adoption, directly affects the girls.  We are comforted in our strong relationship with each other and most importantly our Lord and Savior.  We have been called to care for the fatherless and it is an opportunity that we as a family could never pass up.

We could not imagine going through this journey without this support group of family and friends, specifically being able to adopt at the same time as our friends.  We have many friends who have previously adopted, just brought their child home, or are traveling the road at the same time as us.  Without them and our family, this would be a more challenging commitment.  It is comforting to see that there is a light at the end of the long, long tunnel, that one day God will choose our time to bring our son home!

On a more solemn note, it was difficult to hear of the challenges facing domestic adoption, more specifically the challenges that birth mothers face when deciding how to handle a crisis pregnancy.  It was said that traditionally birth mothers feel that they only have two options, parent the child, or have an abortion.  While

the latter is definitely heartbreaking, a birth mother trying to parent  without the needed resources is troubling as well.  Lifeline offers an adoption solution to birth mothers facing this challenging situation, and I encourage you to communicate this resource to anyone you know who may be facing the decision. Click the following link for more information. http://lifelinechild.org/pregnant  Also, please check out the newest video released by lifeline.



It is an awesome morning, provided to us undeserving, but by a loving God!  Be a difference maker today in whatever situation you encounter!

Home Study was awesome!

We survived!!! After days of torturing ourselves, the home study came and went. It was rather enjoyable, mostly in part to our very awesome social worker Lyndsey. She made it very pleasant and informational. The girls did outstanding, as we hoped they would, Gabby ended up answering most of the questions, while Maddy and Ally went into shy mode.

So far this process hasn't been half bad. After pouring over many adoption blogs, they state the home study is the worst part, except for the waiting. God has developed patience in us, so we are somewhat prepared for the wait. This has truly been a blessing.

We have no one to Thank other then our Lord for blessing this process. There was nothing we could have humanly done to sway the process, but we are glad this step was successful and is now behind us. Thank You everyone for the the thoughts and prayers.

Please check out the new page tab, LifeSong for Orphans. Each month I will be posting different topics from this organization.

Just received a question about posting comments to our blog.  Mistakenly, I had the comments setting on ultra-high security.  I have since changed that setting and now you can simply chose name/url under the comment section.  You do not have to enter both, just simply type in your name, or choose anonymous.

Thanks!

What day is it??? Home study day!

TODAY is our HOME STUDY!  We are excited and nervous, mostly trying to anticipate each step and question.  Please pray for us through this process.  All of the girls are nervous, but their bedrooms have never been cleaner!  They actually cleaned out their dresser drawers.

Our family pictures turned out great, and we hope to be able to post some very shortly for everyone to see.  It was bittersweet for me, our last family of five photo.  We have been use to the family of five, but are now ready to make it an even six!  We will actually fill up the big table at McAllister's.  We eat there often, so yes that is what we think about.

Please do not forget to check out out adoption fund raising page, if you would like to make a donation to our adoption.  We are planning a few fundraising activities after the first of the year, so be looking for that post.

We have been getting questions from family and friends, "Why Ethiopia?"  We will be posting about this shortly, but in short, it is simply God's plan and His choice.

Ohhh, things are moving so quickly.  The old adage of, "hurry up and wait", is going to come to fruition very quickly.  Our first home study is scheduled for THURSDAY, October 17, 2013!

Please pray for our family during this process.  We have been told this is one of the most challenging aspects of the adoption process.

Also, please check out the new page tab on the top of the blog.  If you would like to donate to our adoption, please see the information posted under Adoption Fundraising.  Many people have already began to ask how to contribute.  We are very grateful for all the prayers and assistance in this process!

Well, we think we have the first home study schedule, we will find out on Monday. After talking to a few people about the home study we are a little more at ease about having a stranger peer so deep into our lives. We have also begun writing our autobiographies! Have you ever tried to write about your family history, much less your own self? It is challenging... I will leave it at that.

 Following the home study, and a couple of more steps we will begin some fundraising activities to help cover the costs that will come around the referral time. I know, it is still early, but we want to be prepared, when the time comes. Hopefully, everyone saw the adoption fund post from Lifesong for Orphans, that I posted a couple of days ago. Please check into it, and see if you can help.

Tomorrow is family picture day... This may be the last time we have pictures as a family of five, Lord willing. We plan to incorporate the little lion man into our pictures, he is already part of the family and we do not even know him. That is the power of God! Enough with my rambling, but before I go, check out this song by Casting Crowns written by Mark Hall and Steven Curtis Chapman. It was written when the Hall's adopted from China and really shows the power of adoption!

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Cameron and Sarah experienced the love of their church family through their adoption journey. His Kids Our Homes Adoption Fund, at North County Christ the King Church have blessed this family and others as children are brought into forever families. Listen in on their journey...

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